tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.comments2023-04-15T04:54:58.786-04:00Manifesting Evolution In ConsciousnessSherry Bakhtianhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11825911744614651697noreply@blogger.comBlogger206125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-57643904652197085362012-05-16T21:15:23.417-04:002012-05-16T21:15:23.417-04:00Dear Halil,
Thank you for your comment and you ar...Dear Halil,<br /><br />Thank you for your comment and you are absolutely right, it is scary being "stripped down" or naked as you said. But there comes a time in your life where you can't show up any other way.<br /><br />SherrySherry Bakhtianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11825911744614651697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-66776754816873249012012-05-16T18:55:33.448-04:002012-05-16T18:55:33.448-04:00Being able to stand naked requires full confidence...Being able to stand naked requires full confidence on yourself.<br />Process of releasing the aspects is usually painfull..well, there is an "easy button" too...buttt you know:-))...great article.aryanonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10344013377851240619noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-43254236393887146792012-04-01T06:25:33.326-04:002012-04-01T06:25:33.326-04:00Me too Vick! Thanks :-)Me too Vick! Thanks :-)Sherry Bakhtianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11825911744614651697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-64458212753882784082012-03-31T22:47:06.543-04:002012-03-31T22:47:06.543-04:00Beautifully communicated
I'm looking forward ...Beautifully communicated<br /><br />I'm looking forward to coffee :)<br /><br />VickiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-79885829714497201962012-01-30T09:03:12.370-05:002012-01-30T09:03:12.370-05:00Thanks Lynn!Thanks Lynn!Sherry Bakhtianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11825911744614651697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-21384993663627077112012-01-30T08:47:46.757-05:002012-01-30T08:47:46.757-05:00Hi Sherry,
What a great explanation of how a coach...Hi Sherry,<br />What a great explanation of how a coach can help a client get unstuck. Your special touch can be seen in what you wrote. <br />Lynn SchaberLynn Schabernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-41276262147697884632011-03-29T10:51:05.681-04:002011-03-29T10:51:05.681-04:00for me it was a gift from the nuns, and what they ...for me it was a gift from the nuns, and what they taught me has held true all my life...<br />"Never accept the prevailing point of view.. find your own.."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-5227901611679824662011-02-01T12:09:13.902-05:002011-02-01T12:09:13.902-05:00Thank you Anonymous for sharing your experience! ...Thank you Anonymous for sharing your experience! I am so glad for your re-found friendship!Sherry Bakhtianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11825911744614651697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-18497807089094694342011-02-01T12:03:00.673-05:002011-02-01T12:03:00.673-05:00I had two 'friendships' that ended in coll...I had two 'friendships' that ended in college without real closure. For two decades I carried around emotional burden that felt like guilt because I never talked to my friends about the reasons I/they stopped calling. Fortunately, life brought one of those friends back to me shortly after turning 40 and I treasure the friendship on a much deeper level!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-62652066946563880022010-10-20T05:40:38.592-04:002010-10-20T05:40:38.592-04:00for me... I simply had enough and wanted very much...for me... I simply had enough and wanted very much to die, to leave this pain of existence...<br />then a series of events occurred... if you like it was the Universe's way of answering me... answering a question I hadnt even bothered to ask...<br />and showed me something else, something I had been unknowingly been seeking all my life...<br />something that would, I feel sure, make most of us run a bloody mile from, and yet for me was the answer to every-thing...<br />The Therapist said it was a journey of Individuation... and yet for me so much more than that..<br />all I know is than in my own research on this process of Awakening/Individuation/Gnosis/Dark Night of the Soul/Kundalini [many names are given to this], everyone's journey is different and designed specifically for them...<br />warmest<br />dtbagginsAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-74433815629162863182010-10-05T06:21:01.370-04:002010-10-05T06:21:01.370-04:00Dear Isa,
Sounds like you know exactly what kind ...Dear Isa,<br /><br />Sounds like you know exactly what kind of busy works for you! That's wonderful and thanks for sharing.<br /><br />Love,<br />SherrySherry Bakhtianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11825911744614651697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-45703115028897767472010-10-04T19:54:36.906-04:002010-10-04T19:54:36.906-04:00Hello
1) Do you like being busy? If so, wha...Hello <br /><br />1) Do you like being busy? If so, what is the best thing about it?<br /><br />I like being busy because I feel important, I'm not wasting time<br />and avoid reality.<br /><br />I quit the corporate world too, and came a time when i was addicted to<br />be busy, it was like being drugged and a sense of control, helped me in time to overcome emotional pain.<br /><br />By the way, music help me to through theses days of hard work and busy schedule. <br /><br />2) Can you remember a time when you were completely satisfied and fulfilled and were not busy? What were you doing?<br /><br />With so much drama at work, in the middle of it, i reminded the vegetation, and lying watching the clouds, not thinking about anything else.<br />3) What kind of busy do you like and enjoy?<br /> I can not deny, I enjoy working in sales, I really feel bad, when i don't have something to do, but I knew that feeling and its presence in that time.<br /><br />IsaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-82922094049137409022010-09-10T14:49:36.680-04:002010-09-10T14:49:36.680-04:00Hi Gabi,
I need to catch up with yours too! Been...Hi Gabi,<br /><br />I need to catch up with yours too! Been reflecting a lot.<br /><br />Thanks for coming back,<br />SherrySherry Bakhtianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11825911744614651697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-25153993833521058972010-09-10T14:43:27.946-04:002010-09-10T14:43:27.946-04:00another great post! I need to catch up with your b...another great post! I need to catch up with your blog, looks like I have missed a lot.<br /><br />loveNlight<br />GabiGabriela Abalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11316879938383542026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-47341970038383522832010-07-02T07:38:33.513-04:002010-07-02T07:38:33.513-04:00Wonderful Asma!Wonderful Asma!Sherry Bakhtianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11825911744614651697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-45590854955212573672010-07-02T03:40:04.546-04:002010-07-02T03:40:04.546-04:00i agree with you sherry. sometime when we cant go ...i agree with you sherry. sometime when we cant go out from a certain place or situation, what we can do is change our inner by try to see the situation in a positive way. anyway, thank you for your entry. i feel energetic and confident again to improve both outer and inner me :)Asma’ ABhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01206039746579126464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-59469205191402220282010-05-24T14:56:05.332-04:002010-05-24T14:56:05.332-04:00Thank you Asma. The "young" you is ther...Thank you Asma. The "young" you is there, just hidden under the things that you have made yourself believe to be true. But if you do keep on nourishing it, it will be there always. Good Luck!<br /><br />Love,<br />SherrySherry Bakhtianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11825911744614651697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-75517939910151079432010-05-24T12:49:33.186-04:002010-05-24T12:49:33.186-04:00i really love this entry, sherry! from the story t...i really love this entry, sherry! from the story that u've shared, yes i wonder how my younger age is full with positive energy and hopes. and as i grow up, problems easily made me give up :( easily made me blame myself.<br /><br />but, thank god i read this. i should find back the old (means young) me ^^Asma’ ABhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01206039746579126464noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-15056883876052731922010-05-04T13:55:23.141-04:002010-05-04T13:55:23.141-04:00Thank you Gabi, you always provide food for though...Thank you Gabi, you always provide food for thought. <br /><br />Love,<br />Sherry<br /><br />P.S. Like your new photo!Sherry Bakhtianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11825911744614651697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-2923196539279983602010-05-04T12:03:21.488-04:002010-05-04T12:03:21.488-04:00On this I'm with Rajneesh:
"The moment ...On this I'm with Rajneesh: <br /><br />"The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new." <br /><br /><br />...and there we are trying the best we can with everything we have!<br /><br />loveNlight<br />GabiGabriela Abalohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11316879938383542026noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-60483265685137044382010-05-02T07:50:17.848-04:002010-05-02T07:50:17.848-04:00Dear Isabel,
You may even want to end it with the...Dear Isabel,<br /><br />You may even want to end it with the you who was then. The aspect of you who got hurt and left stranded needs to be released so you can be all of you again.<br /><br />Let me know how you make out.<br /><br />Love,<br />SherrySherry Bakhtianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11825911744614651697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-84988324825539040022010-05-02T00:38:38.120-04:002010-05-02T00:38:38.120-04:00Thanks Sherry, I'm more relaxed. I did not kno...Thanks Sherry, I'm more relaxed. I did not know that you yourself can make a closure ritual of a situation without verbal contact.<br /><br />The first few days that passed were very hard, not because it is romantically interested, but because it happened with my first boyfriend when I was twelve, suddenly stopped talking to me I do not know why and I stopped to talk too, then took a long time with it as you say "That is a tough one to wrap your head or heart around". So, I did not realize the closing ritual, it is likely that my emotional memory of the event is remembered and affect me that way. <br /><br />When I was aware of what was happening, the pain began to invade, what I did was let him in and see all those unfinished and unexplained abandonment off a reason, such as that of my father who has been visible but physically and emotionally affective zero. I think I have many closures to perform, I perform a ritual for all those who in one way or another stopped talking to me without explanation.<br /><br />Thanks again, I am very grateful.<br /><br />I wish you a good weekend,<br /><br />IsabelAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-63599971667764455122010-04-30T20:38:18.423-04:002010-04-30T20:38:18.423-04:00Dear Isabel,
Ouch! That is a tough one to wrap y...Dear Isabel,<br /><br />Ouch! That is a tough one to wrap your head or heart around. I've had a few people drop out of my life too and most of the time I wasn't sure why. It is hard when you liked the person and you miss them. Closure is important, and when you are left hanging, it is tough. I would say, in your heart to forgive him, honor him, and bless him, in other words, create your own closure. You can even write him a letter (that you don't send) saying everything you'd like to say, this way you get it off of your chest and say your goodbye in your own way.<br /><br />The answer might come to you at a later time when you are not so raw from this situation.<br /><br />Best Wishes,<br />SherrySherry Bakhtianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11825911744614651697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-55631492316615775542010-04-30T16:15:22.860-04:002010-04-30T16:15:22.860-04:00Dear Sherry
I had a friend and suddenly off the ...Dear Sherry <br /><br />I had a friend and suddenly off the conexion with me, block me at <br />BB chat and messenger, <br /> I called him, send an sms and <br />He did not answer, I wrote for know why the distance and he did not respond. <br />I wrote about respect his decision and nothing. <br /><br />My ego is in the middle of this, I was upset, angry for the situation and have decided Let it go without explanation. We have ten years knowning each other, We were sweethearts in school and then friends. I know where to look and ask one explanation, but fear and especially the ego, break my decision. It is likely that spend your time and do not know it happened and it becomes an obsession in my life. <br />I would like a little light on this will be possible.<br /><br />Thanks Sherry,<br /><br />IsabelAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7637372139442437709.post-15840407661780380812010-04-30T07:29:21.277-04:002010-04-30T07:29:21.277-04:00Dear Isabel,
Thank you for your comment. I agree...Dear Isabel,<br /><br />Thank you for your comment. I agree with what you said about the ego, it is the ego that determines how we react to disagreements. When we put ourselves in some one else's shoes, we see that there are many different ways of looking at a situation based on your experience. In other words, there is no wrong or right. From that place and understanding we can consciously choose to do whatever we want. <br /><br />I hear what you say about limits and boundaries especially as it relates to interacting with people. However, be careful, that can be a great tool for the ego to use against you. You might think you are just setting boundaries, but you might just be protecting your ego. For example, if someone doesn't pay for my services or doesn't show up for an appointment without explanation, I have my boundaries. So, I know that this client is no longer a client of mine and I can let them know that (respecting the boundary and living within it). Or I can go on getting angry, blaming them, feeling sorry for myself, not trusting any other clients, etc. That is an ego reaction to "what is". <br /><br />Thanks again for sharing!<br /><br />Love,<br />SherrySherry Bakhtianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11825911744614651697noreply@blogger.com